Circle of Security

The Circle of Security is a simple, visual way of understanding how children connect with their caregivers. It helps parents recognise when a child needs support to explore the world independently, and when they need comfort, reassurance, and connection.

In this model, the caregiver provides both a secure base that encourages a child to confidently go out and learn, and a safe haven they can return to for protection, guidance, and emotional support. Learning to read and respond to these moments helps strengthen a child’s sense of security and builds healthier parent–child relationships over time.